06/07/2026
If what I say can help someone else out I’m going to say it! Kindness Matters!!
People deal with financial emotional relationship struggles every day and sometimes they hide those struggles because these are the feelings that they feel but this is 100% how I felt possibly my whole life and I wanted to be 100% real and honest with you guys!
Mental health has always been a struggle in our society, but sometimes the deepest wounds are the ones nobody can see.
As kids, we’re told how to act, what to wear, who to be. If you don’t fit the mold, you’re laughed at, bullied, ignored, or pushed aside. People don’t realize the damage those words and actions can cause. Sometimes even your own family doesn’t see the pain.
You spend your life trying to prove yourself.
You try to make friends, but you feel like you’re not good enough.
You try to find love, but you feel like you’re not good enough.
You work hard at your job, but you feel like you’re not good enough.
You start a business and pour your heart into it, but years of being pushed down make you believe you’re still not good enough.
I’m 50 years old, and if I’m being completely honest, I’ve battled these feelings my entire life.
Why don’t people like me?
Why don’t I get invited?
Why do I always feel like the outsider looking in?
Why does it seem like everyone else belongs except me?
Some days it feels like I’m the black sheep. The embarrassment. The person nobody really wants around.
The truth is, there are probably more people fighting these same thoughts than we realize. We smile. We laugh. We tell everyone we’re okay. But inside we’re carrying years—sometimes decades—of hurt, rejection, and self-doubt.
So if you’re reading this and you’ve ever felt unwanted, forgotten, overlooked, or not good enough, you’re not alone.
Sometimes the strongest people are the ones fighting battles nobody else can see.
Be kind. You never know what someone is carrying behind their smile. Sometimes the people that try to make everyone else happy or feel better are the ones crying on the inside! Believe me I struggle with this everyday! This is me being real
