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US Staff Sergeant Diego M Gonzales, of Pecos, New Mexico.

He was a graduate of Pecos High School and proudly served in the United States with deployments to Iraq in support of Operation Iraqi Freedom. He earned the rank of staff sergeant.

Gonzales served with 1st Platoon, Golf Company, Battalion Landing Team 2nd Bn., 8th Marines, 26th Marine Expeditionary Unit (Special Operations Capable) tactical recovery of aircraft and personnel.

From the family of SSgt Gonzales:

IN LOVING MEMORY OF DIEGO M. GONZALES Diego, we miss you so much and this year has been incredibly difficult for us as we learn to cope with your absence. It has also been a testament to how much you were loved and how many lives you touched. You are always on our minds, and we treasure the wonderful memories we have of you. You were a great man, kind, caring, hard-working, and a hero who served our country with pride. We promise to keep your legacy alive and let your sons know how amazing you were. The void in our hearts and lives can never be filled, we will miss you for the rest of our lives. Semper Fi Marine. To our family and friends: always remember when you mention our Diego, you may bring a tear to our eyes but you also bring some joy to our hearts. Roxanne, DJ, Cruz, Victoria, Abran, Elijah, Mom and Dad.

SSgt Diego M Gonzales lost his battle with , on December 28, 2010. He was 27 years old.

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He won the Oscar, walked to the podium, and thanked a horse. The room laughed because they thought he was being funny. He wasn't entirely. But what nobody in that audience knew was where he had actually learned to play pain — and it had nothing to do with acting class.

He walked to the stage slowly.
That was the first thing — the lack of hurry, the absence of the electric gratitude that usually propels a winner from their seat to the microphone. Lee Marvin moved through the applause at the 38th Academy Awards with the unhurried calm of a man who had long since stopped needing anyone's approval, who had seen enough of the world to know that a golden statue, however genuinely earned, occupied a specific and limited place in the hierarchy of things that mattered.
He reached the podium. He looked out at the most powerful room in Hollywood.
I think, though, that half of this belongs to a horse somewhere out in the valley.
The crowd laughed. They assumed it was a joke, the kind of self-deprecating charm that made audiences love him. It was partly that. It was also partly true.
The horse's name was Smoky, and he had appeared in nearly every scene with Marvin's character Kid Shelleen — a wonderfully, catastrophically drunk gunslinger in Cat Ballou who could barely keep his boots in the stirrups. Smoky had matched Marvin beat for beat, leaning at improbable angles, stumbling with perfect timing, occupying the screen with a comic precision that Marvin, who took craft seriously regardless of what his public persona suggested, genuinely admired. He believed the animal had contributed to the performance in ways that deserved acknowledgment.
So he acknowledged it.
That was the kind of man he was.
But the room that night did not know the full story — did not know where the performances had actually come from, what was underneath the cold eyes and the economy of movement and the specific quality of his portrayals of broken, dangerous, haunted men that made them feel true in a way that couldn't be faked.
It couldn't be faked because it hadn't been.
On June 18, 1944, Private First Class Lee Marvin was twenty years old, serving as a scout sniper with the 4th Marine Division on the island of Saipan in the Pacific. His unit was moving up the slopes of Mount Tapochau when Japanese machine gun fire tore through the company. A bullet severed his sciatic nerve. Another round struck his foot. In the minutes of that ambush, most of his company became casualties.
He was one of the few who survived.
He spent the next thirteen months in naval hospitals — not weeks, not a brief recovery, but over a year of surgery and pain and the slow, uncertain work of a body trying to rebuild what a bullet had destroyed. He received the Purple Heart. He received a medical discharge.
He also received something that had no official name and no ceremony: the weight of having watched men die around him on a Pacific hillside, of being twenty years old and understanding at a cellular level what human beings were capable of doing to each other and what it cost the ones who came back.
He wept for the men who didn't come home.
He carried nightmares for the rest of his life. He said so, plainly, in interviews across the decades — not for sympathy, not to explain himself, but because it was true and he was not a man who found comfort in pretending things weren't what they were.
After the war, he drifted. He worked as a plumber's apprentice, which is not a career that features prominently in the biographies of Oscar winners but which is part of the actual story of how Lee Marvin became Lee Marvin. At the community theatre where he worked, an actor fell ill before a performance and someone needed to fill in.
He filled in.
Something clicked — not the glamour of it, not the attention, but something more fundamental. The use of it. The way a stage or a screen could take everything he was carrying and give it somewhere to go.
When people asked later where he had learned his craft, he did not mention technique or teachers or the Method. He said: It was the Marines who taught me how to act. After that, pretending to be rough wasn't so hard.
It was a characteristically compact answer to a question that deserved it. What it meant, beneath the deflection, was that he had been inside the things he portrayed — the fear, the violence, the particular damage that men carry back from places where they have seen too much — and that when the camera rolled, he was not manufacturing those qualities from the outside but locating them from the inside, where they had lived since 1944 and never entirely left.
The career that followed was built on that foundation.
Cold-eyed villains in a dozen films who were frightening because they felt genuinely dangerous rather than performed. Soldiers and lawmen and broken men of various kinds who carried their histories in the way they stood and the way they went quiet before they acted. Even his comedic work — and Cat Ballou demonstrated that his range was considerably wider than his tough-guy reputation suggested — had a grounding in reality that elevated it beyond parody.
In Cat Ballou, he played two entirely different men: Kid Shelleen, the shambling, heartbreaking drunk who could barely find the horse let alone the saddle, and Tim Strawn, the film's chilling villain, silver-nosed and merciless. Playing both in the same film, making them distinct and believable, was a technical achievement that the Academy recognized with his Oscar.
He thanked the horse. He took the statue home.
Four years later, something happened that still defies easy explanation.
Marvin, who had never claimed any musical ability and who was candid about the fact that what he did in Paint Your Wagon was closer to speaking than singing, recorded "Wand'rin' Star" for the film's soundtrack. His version — gravelly, deliberate, the voice of a man who had lived considerably more than he was letting on — was released as a single in the United Kingdom in early 1970.
In March 1970, it reached number one on the UK Singles Chart.
It held that position for three weeks.
For three weeks, Lee Marvin's talking-singing voice kept "Let It Be" by The Beatles at number two.
He seemed quietly amused by this. He did not pretend to understand it. He accepted it with the same equanimity he brought to the Oscar — as something that had happened, that was real, that he would not diminish by false modesty or inflate by self-congratulation.
He continued working — films, television, the long accumulation of a career that never stopped surprising people who had decided they knew what he was.
Lee Marvin died in 1987 at the age of sixty-three.
He is buried at Arlington National Cemetery, among the soldiers and sailors and Marines who served their country and were honored for it. His headstone is simple, as Arlington headstones are — name, rank, branch of service, dates.
It reads: Lee Marvin. PFC. US Marine Corps. World War II.
Not actor. Not Oscar winner. Not the man who thanked a horse at the Academy Awards or held the Beatles off the top of the charts.
Private First Class. United States Marine Corps.
That was what he put first.
That was what he had always put first.
Everything else — the performances, the Oscar, the career built from the rubble of a Pacific hillside — came after.
Everything else was what he made from what he survived.

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