The Real Sweet Dreams Cafe

The Real Sweet Dreams Cafe My name is Bob and along with Steve and Anthony, we created Sweet Dreams Cafe on March 15, 1995. Thank you to everyone that made it possible!

We had 8 years of incredible regulars, employees and musicians that left a lifetime of memories.

03/16/2025

Can you believe it's been 30 years! On this day 30 years ago Sweet Dreams opened its doors. Tonight we celebrated with Dave Murphy as he released his latest album. Great night and always great memories!

04/14/2023

We Love You Hogie! - Murphy & The Entire SDC Family

Our dear friend and former SDC staff member, Steve “Hogie” Hogan, has been bravely battling Stage 4 Pancreatic Cancer si...
04/12/2023

Our dear friend and former SDC staff member, Steve “Hogie” Hogan, has been bravely battling Stage 4 Pancreatic Cancer since 2020. A whole bunch of amazing musicians, friends and family will be coming out to the Laundromat in Morristown, NJ this Thursday, April 13th to raise funds for Hogie and his wife, Amanda. If you’re in the area, swing by that evening and show your love for the guy who loved “the cafe” so much, he got our logo tattooed over his heart. Event details, along with a link to a GoFundMe are in the following article. Hope to see you there!

https://morristowngreen.com/2023/04/11/one-for-all-all-for-hogie-morristown-benefit-for-steve-hogan-april-13/?fbclid=IwAR0HEWqazR2C1b7NpkG3W4vY2xw3lpXHafYKSBK_Qh13_UWGsmgkteSLsx8&mibextid=SDPelY

ArtsFront Page NewsHelping Hands One for all, all for Hogie: Morristown benefit for Steve Hogan, April 13 Steve (Hogie) Hogan walks into the Carol G. Simon Cancer Center with his guitar at Morristown Memorial Hospital, Jan. 10, 2022. Photo © Ira L. Black By Morristown Green Contributor - April 11, ...

For those of you who were lucky enough to meet Drew Wajnert during our days at Sweet Dreams Cafe, well then... you were ...
01/07/2022

For those of you who were lucky enough to meet Drew Wajnert during our days at Sweet Dreams Cafe, well then... you were lucky enough! Drew always had a smile or a hug to offer just about anyone. Drew was involved in a terrible car accident last year and was left with an incredible challenging road to recovery ahead of him. Sharing a beautifully written post about Drew and his battle, along with links to a GoFundMe setup in his name to help with his recovery costs, as well as a link to the news article about his accident. Thank you for keeping Drew in your thoughts and prayers. Next time you hear a Phish song, send him good vibes! We miss you, Drew-man!
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Where do I start with Drew Wajnert?

Literally one of the best humans I know. My music friends can thank him, and his company Phanphest Enterprises for booking most of the cool bands I ever saw for the first time at venues like The Saint in Asbury Park and Wonder Bar, right in my backyard. The first time I saw Jimkata, Pigeons Playing Ping Pong, Big Something, Dopapod, TAUK, Aqueous, Twiddle, Kung Fu -THE BAND and Papadosio were all at a show Drew, and PhanPhest, booked in Asbury Park. Usually to crowds of less than 50 People. It was the coolest.

Unfortunately for the local music scene, he moved to Colorado in 2016. But fortunately for Drew, he loved it out there. Got to see all kinds of cool live music, and I even flew out to see him in 2017 when Phish played at Dick's Sporting Goods Park, and he was kind enough to pick me up from the airport, and let me stay at his house the night before the concert, free of charge. Was great to see Drew again, and all the memories of all the shows we'd been at together came flooding back.

Drew, as some of you know, was in a really bad car accident on March 2nd, 2021. He was driving home, taking Lyft rides along the way, when he was hit from behind by a drunk driver doing 85 MPH, pushing him into a guardrail at over 50 mph. His spine was fractured, and Drew was left unable to move at all.
You can read a little more about that here:
https://www.businessinsider.com/lyft-driver-hospitalized...

His friends and the people who loved him responded. We all gathered together and were able to raise almost $26,000.00 on GoFundMe!!!! Unfortunately, that amount only covers about 5 days in his current facility.
I'll share the link to that here in case any good hearted souls feel inclined to donate:
https://www.gofundme.com/f/drew-wajnert-recovery-fund...

Drew hasn't stood on his own since. BUT HE IS MAKING PROGRESS! He's on his 9th different hospital setting over the last 9 months, and the hospital journey has taken him all the way out to North Carolina and away from the Rocky Mountains he loves so much. But last week, as you can see in the photo below, Drew was able to stand up for the first time in almost 9 months. He was able to do that because of the place he's in right now. It's a Rehabilitation clinic in the Raleigh, NC area called "WakeMed Rehabilitation" They have a machine called a "Vector Machine" which you can see in the picture below, that allowed them to take almost 100 lbs of Drew's body weight off of his feet, enabling him to stand up, and even pivot onto the bed, for the first time in ages. He's making great progress, and this amazing facility that costs about $5000 a day is proving to be worth the money. His muscles are badly atrophied from 9 months confined to a bed and a motorized wheelchair, and he's got a long road ahead of him.
Here's the problem: Drew's insurance can only cover him there until this Monday, and he is going to need AT LEAST 2 more months of this Vector Machine to have a chance at getting strong enough to stand and walk on his own. On Monday, he goes back to a place called "Learning Services" in Raleigh - where they do as much as they can to help him - but they don't have a vector machine, which means no more progress on getting up out of bed and the chair for now.

The settlement that he already recieved from the driver's insurance is only enough to cover a month in the hospital at most. The guy who hit him is still in jail, and it doesn't look as if his situation is going to allow him to help Drew, even if that was something he wanted to do, or was able to.
If some person or organization that I tagged can help this get more attention, great. I'm going to tag some more. Who knows if anyone can help? Trying anything I can at this point for a buddy who would absolutely do this for me in this situation.
Let's help a Phan get on their feet again.

Drew was in a severe crash about 2 weeks ago. He was struck from behind by a drunk drive… Jennifer Cornish needs your support for Drew Wajnert Recovery Fund

12/20/2018

That moment when you hear one of your favorite Christmas songs and realize that you like the SDC version by Dave Murphy much better! “Merry Christmas from the (Sweet Dreams Cafe) Family...”! Feliz Navidad!

Cleaning out some closets.  Came across a pile of old SDC shirts.   Varying condition but mostly well worn.   If anyone ...
05/07/2018

Cleaning out some closets. Came across a pile of old SDC shirts. Varying condition but mostly well worn. If anyone wants one let me know.
Bob

Such a treat to listen to old Sweet Dreamers! How many of you remember Jerry Lardieri (aka one of The John Does)? He's o...
10/14/2017

Such a treat to listen to old Sweet Dreamers! How many of you remember Jerry Lardieri (aka one of The John Does)? He's out promoting his new band's CD and he still sounds great! Be sure to check out The Brixton Riot's new CD, "Close Counts". CD release party at The AP Yacht Club on 11/3 in Asbury Park.

09/14/2016

Hello Sweet Dreamers!

There are not one, but two SDC musicians playing in Madison this Saturday night (9/17)! Details below:
Dave Murphy @ Short Stories @ 7:30pm
Rick Krueger @ Poor Herbies @ 9pm

I sense a darn good double header of music in our futures...

05/06/2016

Attention all local Sweet Dreamers! There are two favorite SDC performers playing in Madison this weekend, just steps from the old cafe!

Dave Murphy @ Short Stories on Main Street Tonight starting at 7:30pm

Mike Sodano @ Poor Herbies on Waverly Place Saturday starting around 9pm

03/16/2016

Happy 21st Birthday Sweet Dreams Cafe!
Time to open up the Sambuca and top off an espresso and toast all of those we have met, become friends with ( even married). Without all you we would not have been who we were.
Let's do something .....post your favorite memory created at SDC.

03/31/2015

Hey there Sweet Dreams family and friends...one of our own Mike Sodano is performing Saturday Night at Poor Herbies.....Who's in? Let's pack the house!!

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