05/22/2026
Many years ago a close friend of mine asked me if I would let him set up a “Missing Man Table” at the Safe House on Memorial Day. That year I agreed, and after seeing what it was and what it meant to so many people that visited us, I decided that every year going forward we would set up this table for the entire Memorial day weekend. From now through Monday table four will be reserved for those who can no longer join us. Please take a minute at some point this weekend and reflect on the sacrifices made by many so that we can enjoy the freedoms and privileges we have all been blessed with. I would also like to thank the Red Geranium Floral and Gifts for donating the rose for our display.
The table that stands before you is a place of honor. In setting this table, we acknowledge those missing from our celebration. And we remember them.
The table is small, and set for one -- Symbolizing the vulnerability of a lone prisoner against his captors. Remember!
The tablecloth is white -- Symbolizing purity of intention in responding to the nation's call to arms. Remember!
The chair is empty, for they are not here. Remember!
The wine glass is inverted -- They cannot toast with us this night. Remember!
The slices of lemon -- Reminding us of their bitter suffering. Remember!
The grains of salt -- Representing the countless tears of the families. Remember!
The single red rose -- Reminding us of loved ones who keep the faith awaiting their return. Remember!
The candle and yellow ribbon -- Symbolizing everlasting hope of a reunion with the missing. Remember!
Remember! -- All who have served alongside them; we who have donned the same proud uniform, being sworn to the same faith and allegiance -- We will never forget their sacrifice. Remember!
Remember! -- Until the day they return home, or find eternal peace, we will remember.
