09/25/2026
UNEXPECTED.
Last night I worked as the barista for our watercolor class. Each ticket comes with any drink of your choice, and after placing her order, one of the attendees looked at me and said:
“I know that I know you from somewhere…”
Now. In my world, I’m ALWAYS recognized. And, undoubtedly, people recognize me from the coffee shop. Logical.
So it was wildly unexpected to be standing IN said coffee shop and have someone not be able to place me.
And in the approximately 2.5 seconds it took for her to finish her sentence, my brain went through approximately a bijillion possibilities.
How do you say… here? Do I say the coffee shop?
Do I reference the floor falling apart? Does she not realize this is the same coffee shop, just new digs?!
Then she goes— “TAG DAY! You’re the Tag Day Mom!”
😂😂😂
Why yes. Yes, I am.
I did, in fact, help lead Davidson Marching Band’s Tag Day back in August.
And I laughed because it’s been a minute since I’ve been recognized for something OTHER than the coffee shop.
Unexpected.
And honestly, that word seems to fit life pretty well right now.
Yesterday alone brought more than a dozen unexpected conversations with customers. Unexpected surgeries. Good news from doctors. Hard family stuff. Big decisions. Questions completely out of left field. Some joyful. Some heavy. Some that simply needed someone willing to listen.
Little reminders that life is happening to all of us.
And there’s plenty of unexpected in my world too.
This afternoon we meet with the architect. I’m excited. Truly. But if I’m being honest, I’m also overwhelmed by this process. There are SO many things I don't know.
And next week is Coffee Fest, so we’re knee-deep in preparing for a festival with 10k+ people—except this year we’re doing it while still figuring out life in our new digs.
I don't know where I put that darn prize wheel. Perhaps it will surface. 😂
Add in staff transitions and parenting and normal LIFE...
It can get heavy pretty quickly.
Then this morning, I read the verse of the day:
“My presence will go with you, and I will give you rest.” — Exodus 33:14
And THAT was the reminder I needed.
Not that everything is going to go how I expect. Not that I’ll suddenly have all the answers. Not even that the unexpected things will all be good. But that I don't walk into any of them alone.
His presence goes with me.
Into the architect meeting.
Into Coffee Fest.
Into the conversations I didn't see coming.
Into the parenting stuff.
Into whatever happens next.
I don't have to know what's around the corner to take the next step. And neither do you.
So might I encourage you this Friday, friends?
When life feels heavy, unknown, or just plain unexpected—
Keep going.
Take the step that's in front of you.
You don't have to figure out the whole journey today.
His presence goes with you.
Even into the unexpected.
Happy Friday, friends.