10/05/2026
Sometimes, it’s okay to love from over there.
Sometimes, we get wrapped up in our perception of a person, a brand, an organization or simply what has been presented to us from the outside.
Then, sometimes, we get closer.
..And sometimes, we end up working or living in the trenches with them. We see how things actually go. We learn the operation, the facts, the values, experience the culture, and witness how decisions are made.
..And sometimes, we realize that something or someone simply doesn’t align with our values or sit well with us ethically.
That doesn’t mean everything we once admired suddenly becomes untrue.
It just means proximity gave us information that distance could not.
You can appreciate what something or someone represents while recognizing that being closely connected to it or them may not be for you.
Sometimes, again, loving from a distance is okay.
Love,
Val