04/30/2024
We have been in these Autism streets for over 20 years.
Our daughter is almost at the age where she will no longer be able to participate in the program our district supports, and I’m scared.
Let me tell ya, if you think the move from elementary to middle school is big, try from school to life.
The same fear that I had when she was in first grade is still coming through now.
You know the one: “Will my child be mistreated?”
What do you do when your child can’t answer a common question without getting confused or overwhelmed?
It’s part infuriating and part frightening when a seemingly simple question invites confusion.
Whenever her anxiety is high, or she’s overstimulated, it’s almost guaranteed that we won’t get the full answer, and that’s scary.
We’ve had to learn how to become creative with how we ask questions.
Even though she understands, I’m still scared because the world is not always kind.
I know it’s time for me to lighten my hold on the reigns and allow her to experience more life.
So, we help her build community outside of us, advocate for herself, and take her time.
Let me tell ya momma, it ain’t easy.
In fact it takes everything in me to not hold on tighter.
But I know that if I do, I’m not helping her thrive.
If you’re at this point, or you see it in the horizon, ALL your hopes, fears, and joys are valid.
I don’t have a solution, but I don’t want you to give up in creating a world for your child that they can thrive in.
It’s not easy momma, but we can do it, together.
Find support and hold on tight. This Autism journey ain’t meant to be traveled alone.
--Anonymous
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Written for Autism Acceptance Month, observed each year in April. 💜