05/10/2026
Ayden: why do we go to Ngoai’s house (grandma’s House) two days in a row mommy!?
Mommy: bc I miss my mommy and daddy, I want to hang out with them and eat their food.
Ayden: whattt!? Who’s your mommy? Ngoai (grandma) is your mommy!?? What? *still shock!😱
Mommy: yessss Ayden, I have a mommy, too!! Ayden, you gonna come home and visit mommy when you’re older!?
Ayden: *thinking* I don’t know, mommy. I’ll learn to drive when I’m bigger, like when I’m 65. I don’t know if I can come back to see you. I’ll be too old to drive and I might get into accident and can’t come home to see you.
Mommy: *in my mind....oh lord, mommy is prolly not around anymore by the time ur 65😂😂*. It’s ok Ayden, you just have to drive slow and you’ll make it home to see mommy!
Ayden: ok mommy, when I’m 65, I’ll drive home to play with you, and sleep with you, mommy . 😂😂😂😘😘😘😘😘😘
—2019 convo, when my Ayden was 6 yo.
*Pic credit : my mommy and her children. When life gets too much, when I need a break from being a wifey and mom, I go back to my mommy’s house …so I can be mommy’s daughter once more. ❤️ Feeling blessed that I still have a place to go back to…home is where my mommy at 💞 (And yes, we just fought 2 days ago, but we’re ok now 🤪) .
