09/02/2026
This is Jess, Sandi’s daughter. 🫶🏻
I don’t even know how to find the words for this. Yesterday, we lost Brian far too suddenly and far too soon. 💔
Brian wasn’t just my stepdad. He was my mom’s husband, a dad, a grandfather, a friend, and someone who was loved and respected by so many people in our community. He had a tough exterior and a heart of gold, and the people he loved—especially my mom and his grandchildren—could always bring out that rare smile.
Because this was so sudden, my mom was left with expenses she never had the chance to prepare for. She would never ask for help herself, and she’s worried that doing this is somehow “tacky.” But I know our community, and I know how many people loved Brian. I know how many people love my mom. If the roles were reversed, I know Brian would be the first person to show up for someone else.
So I’m asking for her.
If you’re able to donate, no matter how much, it will help take one small burden off my mom’s shoulders while she navigates the unimaginable loss of her husband. If you can’t donate, sharing this post, saying a prayer, or simply keeping my mom and our family in your thoughts means more than you know.
Brian wasn’t ready. It wasn’t his time. And none of us were ready to say goodbye. ❤️
Thank you to everyone who has reached out, checked on us, shared a memory, or simply given us space to grieve. We feel so incredibly loved.
Help us honor Brian and take care of my mom the way we know he would want her taken care of.
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