Proper Etiquette

04/25/2026

Good manners will open doors that the best education cannot.
Clarence Thomas

03/04/2024

03/04/2024

Introduction Etiquette: What to Avoid

With all social etiquette, there are obvious exceptions on any rule. If you are not easily able to stand or make eye contact, not participating in these actions would, of course, not be a breach of etiquette.

Similarly, if you are in a loud and crowded place, a raised voice may be necessary. But in many social situations, you should be close enough to both parties to deliver an introduction in a well-balanced tone and volume.

Once introduced, avoid immediately walking away as this can create the feeling that you have "dumped" the responsibility of conversation on one or both participants.

Finally, always ensure that you know the correct name, title, and pronouns of those you are introducing. If you do not, invite another to coordinate the introduction, speak to someone who knows both parties, or confirm these details with the person themselves prior to the introduction.

It can be uncomfortable to confirm someone's name, but far more uncomfortable to make the mistake while giving a public introduction.

Continue reading on p. 40 of Emily Post's Etiquette - The Centennial Edition.
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02/29/2024

10/09/2023

I share tips and advice on how to considerate, confident, and mannerly kids.

10/04/2023

07/20/2023

Yesterday I was tapping away on the laptop when through the window I saw a young man walking up the drive toward the house. He was shirtless, wearing jeans

06/16/2023

"Good manners are key to a happy and successful life."
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A little take home reminder for my Everyday Etiquette students

06/08/2023

It is inconsiderate, but unfortunately common, for guests to fail to RSVP.

Anyone who receives an invitation has an important obligation to reply as soon as possible. And yet so many don't. Some forget; others procrastinate and then feel guilty, so they delay even longer. To many a host on the non-receiving end of an RSVP, it seems as if an invitee is simply waiting for something “better” to possibly come along. One of the sad parts about the demise of the RSVP is that relationships often suffer due to hosts’ resultant hurt feelings and frustration. It is perfectly polite, however, for hosts to call friends to ask if they plan to attend. In fact, if you want an accurate headcount, you have no choice but to call those who haven't responded and ask whether they plan to come to your event or celebration.
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