03/10/2024
Today marks 2 months since Tony passed away (January 10th) at home around between 1:15p after extremely difficult days of pain and suffering. The memories of those last days are very difficult as we made feeble attempts to manage restlessness, sleeplessness, severe all-consuming pain, and other unmanageable symptoms. Despite all the suffering Tony experienced months before and especially those last days and hours, he never ceased to express his love for us. Tony asked if I was able to get some sleep the night before he passed away - worrying I was juggling too much and not resting enough. When Kaila asked him if he needed anything that afternoon, Tony’s gentle and loving voice responded with “No honey, I’ll be okay for a while.” Tony and Kaila were the last to speak to each other.
I want to express my deepest gratitude for the support of those who came to comfort me and Kaila days and weeks after his death. We appreciate those that gave us space to do whatever we needed, knowing we’d reach out. The outpouring of condolences with care packages, cards, texts, calls, and offers for help was much needed in the early days. We appreciate all the Tony stories that made us laugh and cry. All these actions allowed Kaila and I to mourn on our own before bringing Tony’s community of love together to honor him.
Tony was the life of the party no matter how small or big the party. Tony was a part of many people’s lives and loved all walks of life. There will be several events open to those that would like to remember and celebrate Tony.
Please email [email protected] if you’d like more information about the events.
Tony touched many lives across the country and parts of the world. I know many of you would like to participate and may not be able to attend in person. Please share photos, videos, music, or stories at: https://www.forevermissed.com/tony-harrison
It is with deep gratitude that Kaila and I are able to celebrate, remember, laugh, cry, and honor Tony with you at these events or privately. We miss him deeply, but will never stop loving him as his love continues to fill our spirits.
With love,
Zinnia and Kaila
This online memorial is dedicated to Tony Harrison. It is a place to celebrate his life by sharing fond memories, photos, music and more.
