08/12/2026
It’s a big 50th birthday to me today. Nothing special just want to share how I am living my life with rules that mom and dad thought me when I was so young to understand. When I was 7-8 years old came home upsetting about friends he told me it’s ok that people take advantage at us , lies to us or even steal from us BUT we never do that to anyone. First rule of life not take anything from anyone. First rule of whole life seeing mom go help people that she not even know them. it was annoying me as a teenager I feel like why she had to go clean and do laundry for stranger who got sick and living alone. Then I asked her why then she said I have only 2 children and I’m helping people because if one day we gone my children will have people helping them go through their life and they won’t have to do it alone. I am living my life with both rules since with honesty and giving. I don’t care what I give to people because they lied to me or just want to take advantage over me THAT is not my business it is between their god and them. Just I do what I taught to do and god never abandon me. Pat taught me his love is never left me even he gone always stay with me. And reminds me everyday that I am loved by so many people even sometimes life is too hard. Just want to tell you that god is watching over you and people who love you never giving up loving you 🩷 cheers to the 50th 🎉🥳