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The Baikie Brothers      The first thing Adam noticed when they resumed school was that Mr. Lanre seemed completely unco...
13/08/2026

The Baikie Brothers

The first thing Adam noticed when they resumed school was that Mr. Lanre seemed completely unconcerned about whether he attended school or not. The second was even more disturbing: Nasiru had never been enrolled in school at all. Punishment was meted out to the boys at the slightest mistake, and life under Mr. Lanre was becoming increasingly harsh and unpredictable.

The boys were made to join Mr. Lanre’s servant, a man named Musa, who was Igala, in the arduous work on the farm. Together with Mr. Lanre, they spent six days a week on the farm, from 7:00 a.m. until 5:30 p.m. Their meals were sparse, often consisting of roasted yams or cassava eaten only once a day and washed down with water. Fortunately, there was a fruitful mango tree close to the farm. Its juicy fruits provided some nourishment for Adam, Nasiru and Musa and were perhaps their only welcome relief during those long, exhausting days.

The journey to and from the farm was another source of anxiety for Adam and his brother. The distance from the farm to Lokoja was considerable, taking them through long stretches of farmland and undeveloped areas. It was not uncommon for them to make the journey on foot between 5:30 and 6:30 in the evening. The stillness of the surrounding landscape frightened them, while the haunting calls of baboons echoing from the mountains made the journey even more terrifying.

It was a chilling experience for the boys. Yet, despite their exhaustion and fear, they were still expected to return home and attend to their regular household chores.

A few weeks after their parents had left, Adam developed a high fever. He became so ill that he could barely move. Rather than taking him to a hospital or seeking medical attention, Mr. Lanre became furious. He accused Adam of contracting the fever by swimming in the River Niger.

“Because you are a novice at swimming, you must have gulped lots of dirty water. That must be responsible for your high fever.”

Adam was stunned. Even if he had fallen ill through his own fault, his father would have first ensured that he received medical attention before reprimanding him. But the truth was that Adam had never swum in the River Niger. He was too frightened even to stand by the riverbank, let alone enter the water. Mr. Lanre, however, chose not to believe him.

Instead, he punished the sick boy with hot strokes of the cane, apparently to teach him a lesson never to go swimming again.

By Providence, Adam eventually recovered from the fever and was expected to return to school. He managed to attend for only a day or two before another interruption came. Mrs. Lanre announced that Adam would accompany her to visit her relatives in the Bassa-Nge District.

The journey was long and arduous. They spent virtually the whole day on the road, walking and sometimes stumbling along the difficult terrain. They crossed mountains, thickly forested valleys and streams, passing through numerous towns and villages before reaching their destination. They stayed there for a few days and then proceeded to another village, repeating the same exhausting journey.

Sadly, such journeys soon became a routine for the entire family.

Adam was always at the front of the little convoy, carrying Mr. Lanre’s personal clothing, provisions for the day and water on his head. Mrs. Lanre walked immediately behind him, carrying her baby on her back, with a bundle of the child’s clothes resting delicately on top. She was pregnant with her second child. Mr. Lanre usually brought up the rear, giving directions about the turns they were to take.

Adam never understood the purpose of these frequent visits to the Bassa-Nge area or why he had to accompany the family on such arduous journeys. One thing, however, was becoming increasingly clear to him: his schooling was being irretrievably disrupted.

Amazingly, his frequent absence from school did not appear to affect his academic performance. Adam remained an A student.

Then came the school’s speech and prize-giving day.

Adam was completely unaware that he was among the students who were to receive prizes. So when his name was announced, he could hardly fathom what the prize could possibly be for. He was certain, however, that it could not have been for punctuality or regular attendance.

As soon as his name was called, the students began to clap, recognising and encouraging him as he made his way towards the podium. He had no choice but to find his way through the crowd to collect his prize.

It was only then that he became painfully conscious of his appearance.

He was almost half-naked.

His shorts and shirt were in shreds, with dangling pieces of fabric held together by tired-looking threads. Suddenly conscious of the eyes upon him, Adam became deeply ashamed and was too embarrassed to continue towards the podium.

His predicament was noticed by one of the senior boys, Ajayi Adejumo. Ajayi was always neatly dressed and was a favourite among the pupils, partly because he was the school’s band leader. Seeing Adam’s embarrassment, he quickly beckoned him over and handed him his jacket so that he could proceed to the stage reasonably covered.

It was immediately obvious to everyone that the jacket was not Adam’s. It was far too large for him. It hung almost to his knees, while the shoulders were unusually broad. Yet, for Adam, it was a lifeline. It gave him enough dignity to walk to the podium and receive his prize.

Mr. Lanre, of course, was not there. There was no parent or guardian in the audience to cheer him on, pat him on the back or share in his moment of triumph.

The prize was a book titled Dr. Livingstone in Africa.

Adam treasured the book beyond measure. It became one of his most prized possessions. He carried it with him everywhere, including on his numerous journeys through the Bassa-Nge area. He scribbled notes in the margins and on whatever blank spaces he could find at the end of the chapters. The book became his inseparable companion and, in many ways, his refuge from the harshness of his circumstances.

When he eventually lost it, Adam wept.

While Adam continued to cling to his education whenever circumstances permitted, Nasiru could no longer bear the suffering.

The frequent beatings, the neglect, the hunger and the general hardship had become too much for the young boy. Unlike Adam, he was not even enrolled in school. Whatever hope he may have had of a different life seemed to have disappeared. Eventually, he apparently decided that he had had enough.

One day, Nasiru disappeared from the house.

He was barely seven years old—a fragile little boy at an exceedingly vulnerable age. When he failed to return by sunset, Mr. Lanre showed no sign of alarm. His response was remarkably casual.

Nasiru, he said, would return when he became hungry enough to want to eat.

But sunset became night. Night became another day. Days turned into weeks, and weeks into months.

Nasiru did not return.

And, astonishingly, Mr. Lanre made no effort to look for him.

Culled from Against All Odds by Prof Adamu Baikie

The Journey to Lokoja by Asmau Baikie Baba Abdullah Baikie and Mama Asama'u travelled to Lokoja with the two boys during...
12/08/2026

The Journey to Lokoja by Asmau Baikie

Baba Abdullah Baikie and Mama Asama'u travelled to Lokoja with the two boys during the long vacation. Abdulrahman was already spending the holidays with his elder sister, Fatima, who lived in Zaria.

It was Baba Abdullah's annual leave, and the impression he gave the boys was that they were simply going on a holiday. But Asama'u was not prepared to let her sons travel such a long distance without first seeing for herself where they would be staying and the kind of person who would be responsible for them.

A mother's heart, after all, is rarely satisfied with assurances alone.

The year was 1943, and Abdullah was himself nostalgic about the journey. He was returning not only to a place he loved, but to the home of his mentors and the old stomping grounds where he had once taught as a young man. In Lokoja, his former pupils had affectionately called him “Teacher,” a title that had stayed with him long after he had left the classroom.

For Adam and Nasiru, however, the journey represented something entirely different.

They were thrilled.

It would be their first journey by rail.

The presence of their mother made the adventure even more reassuring. They knew that Mama was their dependable buffer whenever their father's sternness became too much. She was also an essential companion on any journey involving children. She always seemed to know when hunger, boredom or restlessness was about to set in, and she came prepared.

There would be sweets, there would be biscuits.

And, of course, there would be groundnuts—the children's favourite.

When the day finally arrived, the family assembled an impressive mountain of luggage. Much of it consisted of foodstuff, carefully packed alongside the suitcases containing their clothes. Asama'u knew that feeding a family on a long journey was no small matter, and she had made sure they would not go hungry.

She had also arranged for the Yan dako—the local load carriers—to transport the luggage from their home on Aitken Road in Sabon Gari, Kano, to the railway station.

The Yan dako lifted the heavy loads with practised ease and set off briskly towards the station, while the family followed.

For Adam and Nasiru, the railway journey was an adventure in itself.

The train carried them through Zaria, then Kaduna and on to Minna. From Minna, the journey continued to Baro on the banks of the River Niger.

Their luggage was checked through directly to Baro, but the family decided to spend the night in Minna with some of Sir Abdullah's friends.

The following day, they continued their journey.

They arrived in Baro in the evening and were relieved to find their luggage intact.

For the boys, Baro was another world.

They had never been there before. More importantly, they had never seen the mighty River Niger.

The next stage of their journey would be by boat.

They spent the night at the home of one of Abdullah's old schoolmates, Pa Ballanson, preparing to continue the journey the following day.

When they finally boarded the boat, the excitement of the two brothers grew with every passing moment.

The river stretched endlessly before them.

For Adam and Nasiru, every bend in the Niger brought them closer to the mysterious city they had heard so much about.

The boat journey from Baro to Lokoja took an entire day, but the boys hardly noticed the passage of time. There was too much to see and absorb—the vast river, the movement of the boat, the changing scenery and the anticipation of reaching their destination.

Eventually, they arrived in Lokoja safely.

The family was relieved to reach the house of Mr Lanre, where they would stay.

For Abdullah, the visit was much more than a family holiday. He spent his leave revisiting the places and people that had shaped his youth. He visited old friends, returned to the school where he had once taught, went to the hospital and even visited the cemetery.

Many of the people he met remembered him with warmth and affection. They had known him as a young teacher, and some had remained his friends long after he left Lokoja.

Unknown to everyone at the time, some of these old friends would later play a crucial role in rescuing the boys when circumstances in Lokoja took a tragic turn.

Adam and Nasiru, meanwhile, had no idea that the holiday was not really a holiday at all.

They did not know that their father had brought them to Lokoja to stay.

They had not been given any reason to suspect that their parents would soon return to Kano without them.

And because they were still young, they were in no position to understand the gravity of the decision their father had made on their behalf.

As long as their parents remained in Lokoja, there was nothing to worry about.

Food was plentiful.

Their mother had come prepared with enough provisions to last what seemed to the boys like forever. There were no signs that their circumstances were about to change.

So they assumed that the comfort they enjoyed with their parents would continue.

But it would not.

By the time Abdullah's annual leave came to an end, only Adam had been enrolled in school. Nasiru was to wait a little longer before beginning his own education.

Then came the day their parents were to return to Kano.

The boys were left behind.

Perhaps Abdullah believed that he was making the right decision. Perhaps he was thinking only of their education and future. Perhaps he trusted the people and relationships he had built in Lokoja over the years.

Whatever his reasons, leaving two boys of such tender ages hundreds of kilometres away from their parents was a considerable risk.

The consequences would eventually prove how grave that risk was.

Adam's education would be interrupted for a long period, to his great detriment, before he was eventually rescued and returned to his father.

But the fate of Nasiru would be far more devastating.

He would disappear. For twelve long years, his family would have no idea where he was.

The journey that had begun with the excitement of two young boys discovering the railway, the River Niger and the city of Lokoja was about to become one of the most painful chapters in the history of the Baikie family.

Neither Adam nor Nasiru knew it yet.

Their mother's instinct was very sharp, she wept profusely as the boat glided upstream on its journey to Baro while Adam and Nasiru waved goodbye from the shore, oblivious of what was happening or what was in store for them.

The holiday was over and their childhood was about to change forever.

The Boys Leave for Lokoja    Baba Abdullah Baikie now had three sons: Adam, Abdulrahman and Nasiru, aged 12, 9 and 7. He...
11/08/2026

The Boys Leave for Lokoja


Baba Abdullah Baikie now had three sons: Adam, Abdulrahman and Nasiru, aged 12, 9 and 7. He loved his boys dearly and was always proud to show them off.

After Adam completed Standard Seven, Abdullah decided that the three boys should continue their education at his alma mater, Church Missionary Society at Lokoja. Even though he was a Shua Arab, he wanted all three of them to become old boys of the school in the city where the Niger and Benue Rivers meet to form the great confluence that has made Lokoja so significant in Nigeria's history.

When he shared the idea with his wife, Asama'u, she outrightly refused.

“How will that be possible?” she argued. “I will be living here in Kano while my three sons will be schooling in faraway Lokoja?”

Indeed, Lokoja was very far from Kano, more than 600 kilometres away. Road transportation was poorly developed at the time, making movement from one city or region to another a tedious and daunting undertaking.

“The future of my sons is more important to me than your sentiments, woman,” Abdullah said firmly. “I will not allow you to jeopardise my decision.”

“These boys can study here in Kano, just as Fatima did,” Asama'u countered. “Or better still, they can attend school in neighbouring Zaria, like Azumi.”

“No, Asama'u. I want them to school in Lokoja. They will stay with my boss, friend and schoolmate, Lanre James. He is the gentlest man I have ever met. He will take good care of our boys.”

Lanre had been Abdullah's classmate at the Anglican school in Lokoja. He was an indigene of Lokoja and had a remarkably calm personality—calm, perhaps, to a fault. He lived and worked in Lokoja and was often described as kifin rijiya—“the fish in the well”—because he hardly ever ventured beyond his comfort zone. Lokoja was his birthplace, his home and, seemingly, his entire world. Even when he was offered better opportunities elsewhere, he preferred to remain in the city he knew and loved.

“I am so sad about this decision,” Asama'u said. “Something does not sit well with me. I wish you would just listen to me.”

“The boys will be fine. I am sure you are only worried about your empty nest. You already have three grandchildren from your daughters to keep you occupied. Allow your sons to fly.”

Asama'u paused for a moment.

“Can you grant me one favour?” she asked meekly.

“It depends. Let me hear it.”

“I lost our last child, Ramatu. My first three girls are grown up and have left home. Please, kindly allow just one of the boys to stay with us in Kano.”

Abdullah had not intended to give in to her request. But when she mentioned their late daughter, Ramatu, something softened in him.

“I will grant your request,” he said. “You are free to choose between the two younger boys, Abdulrahman and Nasiru. Adam must go to Lokoja.”

“Thank you, my husband,” Asama'u said quietly.

Asama'u took a deep breath. She loved her three sons equally, but each of them had a distinct temperament.

Adam was studious and intelligent. He loved to chat with his mother every day, although he did not particularly enjoy domestic chores. He was already showing the qualities of a visionary leader. He loved running errands outside the home and was happiest when engaged in intellectual activities. His mind was always busy, always reaching for something beyond the ordinary.

Her second son, Abdulrahman, was the homely one. He assisted her greatly with meal preparation whenever he returned from school. He understood her recipes and often helped to prepare the ingredients before she combined them into a meal. He was intelligent and humorous and loved to tease his mother with jokes and amusing observations. His presence in the house made her work easier and her days brighter.

Nasiru, her last son, was her beloved baby. She loved him dearly, but he had the freest spirit among her children. He could spend the entire day playing and completely forget about food.

Many times, when he returned from school, he would drop his schoolbag and announce:

“Just a minute, Mama. I need to go somewhere with my friend Garba.”

“You have to eat your meal before you go out today,” she would instruct him.

“Okay, my dearest mother. Thank you so much.”

But before she knew it, Nasiru would have slipped away.

Asama'u could never quite keep him indoors.

Nasiru needs me the most, she thought.

Then another thought occurred to her.

But even if I keep him in Kano, I may not get to see him often if he is always out playing.

She became overwhelmed by the thought of sending two of her sons so far away. Tears began to roll silently down her cheeks.

“I choose Abdulrahman,” she whispered.

“So be it,” Abdullah replied.

Abdulrahman would remain in Kano and continue his education there, while Adam and Nasiru would be transferred to Lokoja.

And so, a decision that would change the rhythm of the Baikie household was made.

Two boys would leave home for a distant city, while one would remain behind with his mother.

For Asama'u, it was the beginning of a new chapter—one marked by pride, separation, longing and the quiet pain that often accompanies a mother's sacrifice for the future of her children.
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