13/02/2025
The thing about reading âsignsâ of romantic interest is that if you have the hots for someone, youâre motivated to see these supposed âsignsâ in everything they do. That means youâre likely to see âsignsâ that donât even exist.
Thatâs the problem with âsigns.â They are, by definition, indirect communication, and they are, again by definition, subtle enough to be passed off for ordinary behavior that doesnât express interest. Ergo, you can observe ordinary behavior that doesnât express interest and read âsignsâ into them regardless of whether or not theyâre there. And when you really really want those signs to be there, then
Clear communication is better. Donât look for âsigns.â Thatâs a waste of time.
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