18/05/2026
Well .. never did I think I’d have to write something like this. Last Saturday, after what was meant to be an end to a nice evening engagement party, attended by a group of close family and friends, turned into a three and a half hour nightmare for us. Never have I ever been in fear not just for my own safety but for the two ladies working with me that night. All caused by one individual (the groom!) who was having what can only be described as a psychotic fit. And in the midst of him being calmed down/restrained by his male friends, drunken brawls broke out and women were verbally and physically assaulted by those who were supposed to be ‘helping’ him. The sad reality is, most likely nothing will come of this situation. The culprit, although released from police custody, is yet to reach out to apologise to us for what he’d done. His partner, although apologised the next day, is more concerned about retrieving personal property she lost while she was verbally abusing those who were trying to help her and her abusive partner, let alone worry about the anguish, loss and damages we suffered . The women assaulted that night will probably not press charges because the system is so messed up that it makes it more hassle than it’s worth. This is not ok. Laws and procedures should not make it so hard to convict someone of a crime they’ve committed and allow them to walk away with minimal consequence, if any. Victims of crime should feel confident in pursuing a criminal conviction of their offender because they know the process will be worthwhile. But above all, people should learn or be taught decency. If you mess up, apologise and do the right thing. This unfortunately is not the case today. Emergency services have been incredibly helpful and are truly under appreciated for the work they do with idiots they have to deal with daily. To the two people responsible for this mess, you need to take a hard look at yourselves and reevaluate your life choices. If you can’t handle your drink, don’t drink. You do not treat people and their property like this and walk away free. Shame on you!