03/02/2026
Dear you, here is something you should know about me.
I have a good memory. I don’t forget what people do to me, whether it’s good or bad.
But that doesn’t mean I walk around with resentments in my pocket.
I don’t keep records to pvnish people. I keep them to understand people. There’s a difference.
When someone shows me kindness, loyalty, or support, I remember it cos I value it.
And when someone shows me the opposite, I remember that too, not out of bitterness, but out of wisdom.
Memory helps me know where to place my trust, how to set my boundaries, and how to move wisely next time.
Forgiveness and forgetfulness are not the same thing.
I can forgive and still remember the lesson. I can let go of △nger and still refuse to ignore patterns. Growth requires awareness.
So if I ever remind you of something, it’s not cos I’m unforgiving. It’s cos actions have meaning, and I believe they should be acknowledged.
Good or bad, what we do matters… Let's stop behaving or acting anyhow just cos we can say sorry after.
I have a problem with CVs cos they don't talk about our weaknesses… if they did, we would be more conscious and some of us would have more than 65 pages.
Bye
