27/07/2026
Meet my friend Marita, boarding school bestie and within 2 minutes of seeing each other we were back like it was 1995
I’m home from a brilliant weekend away.
And while my reunion was fun.
And I got to see my son.
The best part of my weekend was finding my independence again.
It’s easy to settle in to only going away when it’s the two of you.
It’s so common for me to make an excuse of why I wouldn’t.
It’s too easy to use the it’s too far or takes so long.
But this time I made the commitment, made a new playlist and I loved it.
3 whole days of my music and the loudness I wanted it.
3 days of missing turns and just thinking who cares, I’ll get the next one.
3 days of friendships.
This is my reminder to myself and to whoever needs to hear it.
It’s ok to do something for you.
It’s ok to say I’m a better parent when I get a break.
It’s ok to not have the same interests as your partner.
It’s ok to put yourself first.
It’s ok to make plans just for you.
Happy Monday my friends x