23/03/2026
Heading to Boardwalk - Atlantic City, New Jersey for The Atlantic City Beer & Music Festival next Month and was saddened that of my old haunts will be closed for renovations. The Irish Pub Atlantic City sustained visits from The Baron since The Late 70's. Almost 50 Years of Smiles, Great Pub Food and of Course The Guinness! Met one of the bartenders while Matriculating at King's College, Pennsylvania of all places at a Party in Margarita Apartments. He was visiting a friend in the Unit above mine. Ian, the Bartender, was a fast friend who I visited often at The Victorian Pub's ode to all things Irish.
The Pub has announced some ten weeks ago it will be closed for renovation. Some say it is closed permanently however, it is the true belief of The Baron, that in True Irish Spirit it is The Classic Example of The Irish Good-Bye.
For those not familiar to the concept The Baron will compare the much more favorable of departures to The Long Winded, drawn-out Italian Version that borders on Harassment!
THE ITALIAN GOOD~BYE
The Italian Good-bye is an exhausting ritual that drains the energy from what was an enjoyable event. What begins as a heartfelt farewell, often spirals into an endless cycle of repetitive good-byes, delayed departures, and emotional overextension. This overbearing display can feel performative, turning a natural conclusion into a spectacle that overshadows the event itself, it may also place pressure on guests to engage in lengthy exchanges when they are ready to leave, creating discomfort, rather than connection! While rooted in warmth and affection, The Italian Good-bye can inadvertently transform genuine sentiment into social fatigue, making the departure more burdensome than meaningfull. It starts in the Kitchen, moves to the dining room, then to the foyer, on to the porch, out to the car, rolling the window down and waiving...then the phone call once you FINALLY have arrived at home!
THE IRISH GOOD~BYE
The Irish Good~bye was introduced to The Baron by classmate Kevin X.Foley and embodies a quiet elegance and efficiency that many social situations can benefit from. It allows individuals to exit gracefully without disrupting the flow of the event or drawing unnecessary attention. The approach respects both personal boundaries and the natural rhythm of the gathering, sparing everyone the awkwardness of a prolonged farewell. It reflects a sense of confidence and self-assurance-an understanding that one's presence has already been felt and appreciated and that leaving need not be a performance. In a world that prizes constant attention, visibility, and connection, The Irish Good~bye offers a refreshing reminder that subtly and simplicity can be powerfull forms of social grace!
There you have it and when The Irish Pub Atlantic City returns, Make sure you Welcome them back...and tell em The Baron Sent Ya.... CAED MILE' FAILTE