09/30/2026
âItâs my wedding, and Iâll cry if I want toâŚâ
Absolutely.
Itâs your wedding. You choose the dress, the flowers, the food, the music and everything in between.
But hereâs the question I sometimes wonder aboutâŚ
Why did you invite 150 people?
Because those 150 people arenât extras in your show.
Theyâre your parents, grandparents, children, siblings, friends and the people who have shown up because they love you.
Yes, itâs your wedding.
But once you invite a room full of people to celebrate with you, youâre also a host.
A five-year-old, a twenty-five-year-old and a ninety-five-year-old are going to experience the same room very differently.
That doesnât mean you have to please everyone. It simply means thereâs something rather lovely about looking around the room and thinking:
âThese people are here because they matter to us. Letâs make sure they feel welcome.â
Because perhaps the best weddings arenât the ones where the couple gets absolutely everything they want.
Perhaps theyâre the ones where everyone leaves feeling glad they came.
Just a thought from someone whoâs watched a few weddings unfold over the years. â¤ď¸