21/08/2023
Hi everybody,
I have been away from the group for awhile but I missed all of you. Had to go and do some birthday enjoyment.
So while snooping around social media I saw a video from one of our popular content creator telling advising her recently adopted relative abi daughter to stop breaking up with her boyfriend every week because it's becoming too much. And the girl was laughing and explaining how she enjoys it when he says sorry. I was just laughing at the video cause it reminded me of myself before.
So when myself and my current boo just started dating any small thing I don talk say I no dey do again. If I call him no pick wahala, if him no call as at when due wahala, if we dey talk and him talk the one wey no sweet me wahala, na so so I am not interested, it's over, am done, etc. Inside of me I just want to hear sorry. But this son of Adam no dey gree talk sorry that time. This thing they pepper me. Haba. In my mind why can't you say sorry. Me that sorry was my food. Like the air I breathe, like I bathe with sorry. As a last born concerned. Instead he would say what is making you upset? When I tell him he would now say Noted it won't happen again. And am like that's all? He would say yes.
Bro why can't you say sorry? He would say people are always quick to say sorry even when they don't mean it. This guy was so serious that even when I offend him he tells me not to say sorry. I should just take note of his grievances and not repeat it again which is what he normally does. Omo I kept breaking up every week if not less self till the day oga seriously warned me. I can still remember. He said the next time you would break up with me because of little misunderstanding we can sit and iron out would be the last time we would be together. I would no longer try to make it work. He said think of it, you think I can't break up with you too? That's a strong sentence that is not supposed to be used anyhow.
Omo I heard the seriousness in his tone. Immediately it was like I received a holy slap from heaven. Yeh who slap me abeg? My head returned back to factory settings. I started thinking straight. Ladies and gentlemen since that day I stopped that nonsense ooooo. I no dey try am again. You know the funny thing? Since I stopped the sorry has been coming from him even without asking.
Abeg who follow me dey for this shoe? It's amazing how people walk into your life and help you change your way of thinking.
