17/08/2026
💍 THE WEDDING PLANNER’S TOP 5 TIPS 💍
Written by Alyssa from Ivory Pavilion & Ivory Barn. 🥂🌿
After helping so many couples plan their wedding days, there are a few pieces of advice I find myself giving again and again! 🤍
If you’re currently planning your wedding, save this one for later 👇🏼
1. Choose your venue before locking in too much else 🏡
Your venue sets the tone for your entire wedding — your date, guest numbers, style, timeline, location (where you and guests will stay) and often what suppliers you’ll need outside of whats included. Find the right space first and let everything else fall into place around it.
2. Don’t plan your wedding around pleasing everyone 🤍
There will always be opinions! Mum wants one thing, friends suggest another, someone thinks you have to invite someone… Remember, it’s YOUR wedding. Choose the things that feel like you as a couple. I so often have to remind my couples this is your day dont let others take away from what this day is about. Your love 💕!
3. Spend your money where your guests will actually notice ✨
Great food, plenty of drinks, good music, comfortable seating (add low seating if you want a cocktail style not everyone can stand or sit on a stool comfortably) and a beautiful atmosphere will be remembered far more than tiny details that can quickly blow out your budget. Things like, flashy wedding cars, Large 3 tier cakes, content creators easily mount up but not everything is special to you. Things like Dry ice & cold sparks, ice cream trucks or roving made to order deserts, mirror Photobooths, acustic artist are things that people will remember and enjoy but they arent necessary for everyone. You can splash on more fun ideas or stick to the package, every one will still have a special day if you dont opt to spend more.
4. Give yourself more time than you think ⏰
Wedding days go FAST. Don’t cram your timeline so tightly that you spend the whole day watching the clock. Allow breathing room to actually enjoy your ceremony, have a drink with your guests, sneak away for photos and soak it all in.
This starts from your preparations make sure H&M finish earlier enough that you have at least two hours to get ready, dressed take photos and leave out the door! No one ever takes 10mins to get the dress on. 😂 but many have tried. Every moment is a photo & video opportunity we are building memories not rushing you from one moment to the next. Spread things out and start early.
5. Stop chasing perfection & enjoy your wedding 🥂
Something tiny might run late. The weather might change. A flower might look differently than you imagined. Your guests won’t notice — and neither should you! The most beautiful weddings aren’t the ones where every tiny detail is perfect… they’re the ones where the couple is relaxed, present and genuinely having the best day of their lives. Simply ask your on the day coordinator to help with the small things and let your team look after you.
✨ BONUS TIP: Choose suppliers you trust, then LET THEM DO THEIR JOBS! A great wedding team will make your day feel effortless — you shouldn’t be coordinating suppliers or answering questions on your wedding day thats our job! And Ivory Barn give your suppliers to review and honest notes on past experiences or if they are freshly sourced for your review so you dont have to go on the hunt.
Recently married couples — what’s ONE piece of advice you’d give someone planning their wedding? 👇🏼💍